Editorial for Southern Bride Magazine
Aug
2008
Imagine if you will for a moment with me, the moment you were old enough to start dreaming of the person who would represent your “Ken doll” in your life and of course, you would be “Barbie”.
You imagined in your mind the “princess” dress you would wear with the cathedral train that trailed into the next city block. You imagined your handsome “Ken” awaiting you at the end of the three mile aisle you would glide down while everyone in the whole town admired how lovely and magnificent you looked on the most important and mentally rehearsed day of your life.
Of course you also rehearsed in your mind what style and color bridesmaid’s dresses all of the girls in your third grade class would be wearing, but by no means upstaging you the “star” of the day!
You imagined that as soon as your groom’s eyes fell on his exquisite bride, the heavens would part and golden light would shine from above to spotlight you, angels would sing and the whole room of one thousand of your closest friends and family would adore you.
OK, now imagine with me the sound of a needle screeching across a vinyl record!!
I can only speak for myself, but as a wedding planner and designer, it is my greatest desire to make your childhood dreams and fantasies become tangible for you on your wedding day. In fact, it is my desire to exceed your expectations for the most important day of your life, but here is where that dirty word “reality” comes in and steals the show.
Although we can be the most creative visionaries you will ever meet, we were not present when the earth was formed, therefore disqualifying us in the miracle department. J
Wedding television has been an incredible catalyst for our industry. It has opened doors for creative ideas and wonderful locals, for all kinds of wedding experiences. However, it has also set the bar for what brides want and expect on their wedding day.
There has to be some compromise involved if you don’t have a large or unlimited budget. You can still have an extremely elegant, and upscale wedding experience on a limited budget, but you may have to do it in front of 50-100 choice guests as opposed to the 300 that you want. If I had to make one suggestion to a bride who had a limited budget, but still wanted that “TV” worthy wedding, I would tell her to consider her guest list. For every person that you invite to your wedding it could realistically (There is that ugly word again) raise your overall cost $100-$200 per person. That in solid numbers could mean $10,000 for an extra 50 people. Keep in mind that these numbers include all of your expenses for the wedding, including food, linens, flowers, etc.
Your guest list determines everything. Please do not assume that less people in any way makes your wedding experience any less special or enjoyable. It is sometimes more special and intimate with a small crowd.
Remember that this day is about sentiment, love, expression, union, spirituality and joy. I wish you the warmest congratulations and happy planning! ~
Angela Mazanti
Angela Mazanti Events
www.AngelaMazantiEvents.com



